Bisexuality

 Bisexuality is being sexually attracted to both males and females.

Some people believe we are all potentially bisexual and that each person simply tilts more one way or another. For others, bisexuality is a very specific way of being that’s quite distinct from homo- or heterosexuality. Still others feel bisexuals are gay people who have trouble accepting themselves. In the same way that ideas differ about what exactly bisexuality is, people who have mixed sexual preferences have different ways of defining themselves. Some people are comfortable with labels like “bisexual,” “bi-curious” or “questioning.” Some call themselves “gay” or “straight” instead. Others choose not to name their orientation at all. One way of seeing bisexuality is as part of a “continuum“–with gay and straight extremes at either end and an endless variety of sexual preferences in between. The continuum makes sense especially to people whose sexuality changes over time.
 
Bisexuals often feel pressure to choose between gay and straight. “Coming out” as bisexual can be especially hard for this reason. Some people miss the more clearly defined, socially supported position at one end of the continuum or the other.
 
When a friend comes out to you as bisexual, it can be confusing and may raise questions about your own attitude towards bisexuality. You may be upset if your friend is hurt by other people’s reactions and might feel uncomfortable if you think your friend is sexually interested in you. Even if it’s difficult, being supportive will probably make a huge difference to her or him.

Bisexual Relationships

For some, bisexual relationships can be more complicated than straight, gay or lesbian relationships. However, regardless of your sexuality, it is important to be open and honest with your partner/s, about feelings of attraction to other people. Like everyone else, bisexual people fall in love and form committed relationships. These may be with a man, a woman, a transgendered person, or with more than one person. There are no rules that bisexual people follow in relationships- everyone is free to make them up for themselves.

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